mental abuse

hi,i have been in a very mentally abusive relationship,still am,trying 2 get out of it,is my partner aware of wot he is doing?i have spoken 2 his previous girlfriend and it was like a game of snap between us!why is he doing this when all i have ever gave him is my love and my heart?hope you can help.....thanx misty.x.

misty wrote:

hi,i have been in a very mentally abusive relationship,still am,trying 2 get out of it,is my partner aware of wot he is doing?i have spoken 2 his previous girlfriend and it was like a game of snap between us!why is he doing this when all i have ever gave him is my love and my heart?hope you can help.....thanx misty.x.

Hello Misty,

Sorry this reading is a bit late. Not been getting confermation by e mails.

So sorry to hear about what you are going through,but I felt this has nothing at all to do with you, but instead I felt more along the lines to do with the perso whom you are talking about. I felt something about his past and his upbringing that has caused this person to be like the way he is towards you and also towards others. I feel he wont change untill he looks at himself and sees what he is doing to others,and yes, to himself as well. Untill he decide to see this for himself he will not start to learn to cange his old pattern. I felt you need to maybe look at what you want out of this, and if there is anything you can maybe do to help him in seeing what he is doing. I know this is not much help,but I felt he needs to see it before he can leanr and know what he is doing so changes will then happen and only then. I do feel that this is going to be a hard one Misty in mkaing him see what he is doing to you and others, so you might need to relook at what you want to do in the long run. Please dont make any rash choices before you really know deep down what you want and how you are going to do this.

thanks for your reply,you are right the past few months been awful as i started accusing him of wot he was doing 2 me and his previous girlfriend!thats when things got really bad and i went 2 the police 2 report things because i knew they were going 2 get out of hand,i was obviously hitting a raw nerve when i accused him of wot he was doing 2 me,i 2 felt it had something 2 do with his upbringing,prop his faher i think.Anyway things got so bad he assaulted me and i had 2 fone police and he was detained for the night,i am now in temporary accomadation and my whole life has been turned upside down but am looking 4ward 2 enjoying my life again once i ave had time 2 heal......i think he knows wot he is doing but he wasnt expecting me 2 fight back and mental abuser dont know wot 2 do when you ave a bit of power over them....lol......onwards and upwards.....xxx

misty wrote:

thanks for your reply,you are right the past few months been awful as i started accusing him of wot he was doing 2 me and his previous girlfriend!thats when things got really bad and i went 2 the police 2 report things because i knew they were going 2 get out of hand,i was obviously hitting a raw nerve when i accused him of wot he was doing 2 me,i 2 felt it had something 2 do with his upbringing,prop his faher i think.Anyway things got so bad he assaulted me and i had 2 fone police and he was detained for the night,i am now in temporary accomadation and my whole life has been turned upside down but am looking 4ward 2 enjoying my life again once i ave had time 2 heal......i think he knows wot he is doing but he wasnt expecting me 2 fight back and mental abuser dont know wot 2 do when you ave a bit of power over them....lol......onwards and upwards.....xxx

Hello Misty,

Im happy you understood what I have told you in your mini reading. You do what you are doing right now in allowing yourself to heal the past hurt within you, once you do this then things will slowly get back to how they should be.

All The Best

Vas Andreas